Originally Posted by BigGuy
How does one know there's a DADT agreement and they're just not doing some good old fashioned cheating?
Is there like a notarized affidavit they carry around?
Ha, yeah, exactly. If "telling" is against the rules then you can't exactly check in with the person's partner to confirm. Love the affidavit idea.
But, hell, if it's just a hot fling, why not roll with it? I wouldn't accept an ltr with these parameters, but if it's just sex, well, at least he or she disclosed about having another partner at all. How they deal with openness is their issue.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.