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Old 11-27-2011, 05:20 AM
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...I think of the guy a lot. I feel his presence next to me. He does not, apparently. He keeps living his life like we are not honeymooning, keeps his calendar full, keeps looking for other women on the dating site (lots of effort, no dates), keeps all his recreational activities. That gets under my skin.
I really don't understand the problem. He is polyamorous, you've dated him for a very short time, and you expect him to act monogamous? I'm confused.
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