In fact - I am with one man, Ouroboros, and not with another (for many reasons) yet I do love them both. I don't "feel" poly, and in fact, I don't even put the title on myself. I just feel this way. I bet I could love many... The ogistics of having the relationships is another matter entirely.
Also - even though I feel this way, I still get wierded out with Ouroboros wanting to see other women... I know it is something I need to think about.