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Old 11-27-2011, 01:09 AM
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I would prepare a few short sentences on what I really want to get across, hopefully say them in person, but sure I'd email them if it was too hard.

For me in that situation it might be something like - I like you and really enjoy the time we've been spending together, enough so that I'd like to talk about seeing/dating you more, maybe 2-3 days a week to see if that was a good fit for us. I'll understand if you aren't interested in that now, but I thought it would be inauthentic not to bring up my thoughts so you can think on it.

Then I'd leave it at that if they didn't know what they were feeling then or have a response - figuring that they'll let me know after they think it over.

I try never to tailor what I'm going to say to a person on whether they will like me more or less for it - I think only doom lies that way!
Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.

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