I probably could have saved myself some time by pointing you to the post I just made on this thread: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17782
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.