Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Being a mono with a poly partner is a little like the image of Peter Pan flying carefree over Never Never Land hand-in-hand with Wendy. Your heart is filled with that child like joy of being with someone who is the focus of your world and you feel like that to them. Then you feel their hand slip from yours and you look back to see them soaring with someone else with that same look in their eyes.
Realizing that they are actually still holding your hand is the hardest part to accept. That is where you'll find out if the relationship is worth it.
*covet* just in case I need to remember he feels this way. I must be doing something right if he understands this now