Seven, thanks for the concern
But life's never that cut and dry, and while I was sexless, I was happy in many ways. Just frustrated. And you are implying that there is tons of bitterness left in all of that. there isn't, we were just applying the wrong rules to the game.
As for why we were so hesitant to dropping monogamy from our lives earlier, We just moved from a region of the country were this would not have gone over well. Now that we're up here, the social constructs that messed up our upbrings are pleasantly being shed.
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