Originally Posted by Ceoli
What makes you think that?
Simply that she may not have had other poly relationships. If she has never known what it was to maintain two functioning relationships, than perhaps she is in fact not poly at all. Perhaps she acted poly but is actually more serial monogamous. What's her history? Is this the first time she experienced "trying" to maintain a multiple partner relationship?
Some people say they are monogamous when they aren't, some people say they are poly when they aren't.