Somebody told me once when I was a lot younger that as you mature you go from looking for meaning in life to finding ways to create it. I'm beginning, I think, to see what he meant.
Polyamory has been one example of that: using my dissatisfaction with the standard relationship model to really ask myself - so what is
a good relationship for me? What does it mean to love someone? How best can I conduct myself? What is important and what isn't?
I have often found that moments of "great significance" are ones I specifically engineer myself