Can one have a 'primary' partner for whom they are not 'primary'?
Something that's come up a couple times and is resurfacing again.
Having a partner in your life who for you is "primary", whatever that means for you. But, you don't have as much "importance" for them. I don't know how else to phrase it.
Just thinking out loud, really.
My heart is too big to fit into one person.