The only question I would raise is about the nature of your girlfriend. Perhaps she is more serial monogamous than poly? Has she had successful poly relationships in the past?
It's easy to say I am poly, but until someone has been in a successful multi-partner relationship who knows. Is this a cycle of one new relationship replacing the older with a brief overlap?
Pehaps your girlfriend need sto look inward for awhile.
No one wants to be the homewrecker..trust me, I know that concern and regardless of what people say, externally that is what it will look like.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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Last edited by MonoVCPHG; 11-05-2009 at 06:18 PM.