The only question I would raise is about the nature of your girlfriend. Perhaps she is more serial monogamous than poly? Has she had successful poly relationships in the past?
It's easy to say I am poly, but until someone has been in a successful multi-partner relationship who knows. Is this a cycle of one new relationship replacing the older with a brief overlap?
Pehaps your girlfriend need sto look inward for awhile.
No one wants to be the homewrecker..trust me, I know that concern and regardless of what people say, externally that is what it will look like.
Take care
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Last edited by MonoVCPHG; 11-05-2009 at 06:18 PM.
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