Try doing a tag search here for "dating" "dating sites" or anything else in the tag cloud that might look interesting. You can find the tags in the search engine on the toolbar above.
You could also check out the link in my sig. Its a site of calendars of events. If you find events in your area that don't have a calendar please pass on the link. Its meant to be useful to anyone wanting to host events publicly and anyone looking to find meet up.
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