Originally Posted by caragh87
The fact of the matter is, I don't trust him and I wont until he can prove that he is trustworthy I don't think I can continue to live like this.
Something a lot of people don't realize... if he's not already worthy of trust, then he can never prove himself to be trustworthy. Generally, people with these tendencies don't change unless some outside catalyst forces them to, such as being left by a close partner or the sudden accidental death of a close friend. In his case, it's unlikely that he will spontaneously learn from his lifetime of mistakes and wake-up a changed person.