Originally Posted by LexxVicious
I want to have fun and be with a couple of nice girls doing it. Im not interested in trivial unnecessary emotions.
Sounds like you'd be happy just dating casually or that you're actually more interested in swinging than poly, if you're not wanting any "trivial" emotions involved. I mean, emotions are pretty hard to avoid when cultivating relationships, so it would seem recreational sex is more for you than polyamory is. Perhaps get to know some swingers who can get you in to some swinger events as a single (or "swingle"). I'm sure there are meetups for that in Chicago, which can introduce you to parties, clubs, and other swinger events there.