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Old 11-23-2011, 08:30 PM
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I'm confused here. Why can't your hubby still be your primary and J your secondary? Just because M is now your husband's primary doesn't mean that yours has to change too. Just some food for thought. Also, there is nothing saying that you have to call your primary first or secondary second. Call who it feels most appropriate to call. Labels may help you understand your place, but I think your problems adjusting would be lessoned if you didn't try to copy your husband's change.
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