Switching primaries has been an amazing step for us. M doesn't do titles well but I have to have them in order to know where I fit in. J and I are great together as a couple. We are so much alike in what we need out of a relationship and M and Hubby are doing great too.
It took a long time for me to be ok with being hubby's secondary but honestly it was harder to allow him to not be my #1. I still have a hard time not texting him every chance I get or calling him before I call J. I have been trying hard but he is still my husband and it is hard not to want to talk to him as much as I can. I still love him as much as I ever have. I am working on stepping back and allowing my self to enjoy j so M and hubby can enjoy their time together.
I really do love my family!