We are trying to join a poly meet up, but so far no luck. Im already trying the online dating scene, and even that's tough. Im terrible at small talk.
As far as the new guy goes I think it's a combo. I can't pin down some of what bugs me about him, but I do have some specific issues with him that I've spoken to my wife about. I guess I'm trying to figure out how to find the things that bother me about people and he is the subject of my study.
My user name was meant to be a bit of a joke, but you're probably right and it likely fell flat. I'm guessing SUITABLEMATE might not work so well either. I'm not much of a creative type, so I'll have to give it some thought.
I will dig through the forums and try to find some threads that other guys have posted. In th mean time I would appreciate any links that anyone might have.