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Old 11-22-2011, 10:26 PM
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Carma Carma is offline
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Admirable. I'm impressed that you were honest and upfront with your wife, and that having the hard talk lead you to some deeper intimacy with her. Instead of crossing a line and having to clean up the mess, which sometimes just isn't that easy, if even possible at all. Honesty rules! Thanks for showing us another fine example!

Just a word of caution -- if you think porn is the easy answer, I'd do some research. It does have its effects on intimacy in a marriage. There are some recent studies showing this. I know there are others here on the forum with different opinions on porn (actually there is a great thread if you do a search) and I am confused, myself. But you owe it to yourself, your wife, and your little family to educate yourself on the possible effects. It sounds like you're into that sort of thing.

BEST wishes.
Formerly married to Sundance
Boyfriend -- Butch Cassidy
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