Originally Posted by redsirenn
I don't even know if I buy that - why is it wrong to do something FOR someone or BECAUSE of someone else's needs? Where is the line drawn?
If any one buys into this they are painfully narcissistic!! Of course it is not wrong to do something for some one...putting others ahead of yourself is a fundamental philosophy that takes care of the less fortunate in the world. Some people show love this way.
When you do things for others that adversely affect your health and heart, that is when you have a problem.