Originally Posted by redsirenn
mono - that is kinda the question... is going thru all of this for the sake of a relationship "good" for a person. or should that person want it for reasons that pertain to them as well? Like "you should only enter an open or poly relationship if it is something you want as well, not because someone else wants it, or for the sake of the (in this case good) relationship."
For me it's about being healthy. I don't want to be poly, nor did I seek out a poly relationship. Poly is a package deal with Redepper. I am healthy in that and inevitably that is what it comes down to.