The first thing I notice is that you and your bf's other gf don't talk to each other. You let your bf be the go-between, and you get all info second-hand. I think things might get better if you two are communicating and the three of you have get-togethers and regular meetings to discuss issues like this.
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Last edited by nycindie; 11-21-2011 at 10:25 PM.