It was my pleasure Mark, and I'm glad that I can give you hope through our stories. My wife and I weren't always out about our lifestyle. That only came about when we lost our first gf. I felt HORRIBLE that we had to hide our relationship and our love from our families. That was never going to happen again.
You guys will come out when the time is right for you all. You may not come out at all, so long as you all are happy with the situation, that's all that matters. Plain and simple.