It's taken me 10 months to get to a place of "peace" as you describe it. I think Redpepper might have some good advice in this is she is a person with much more going on than I. I don't have a lot going on, never have.
I do find the idea that he is freaked out by being sexually exclusive for two months a little odd...it almost makes his polyness sound sexually driven. That is not the topic however.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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