p.s. replying to your own message less than thirty minutes after posting it, making another request for help could be considered high-maintenance and demanding. It was before 10a.m. on a Sunday morning, people are busy doing their thing. Give it time.
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."