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Old 11-20-2011, 06:07 AM
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Ah, my dear woman, you are a thinker. And a worrier. In that way we are very similar. But perhaps this is one of those times you might want to give your brain a rest and just enjoy the attraction between you and Jay without worrying. As long as you're not dissing Davis in any way (and I am certain you are not), it's all good. It will likely either fizzle out, or morph into just a flirty friendship. Even if he did notice, maybe he just sees it as some fun flirty energy between the two of you and doesn't feel threatened. I would think you'd only need to tell Davis if it seemed like it was heading in a direction where the fantasies might become reality. But not every attraction goes anywhere, so give yourself a break.
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