Welcome to the forum Barb. I think it's great that you guys are open and willing to try new things. Just know that this may or may not work out. Don't be dissapointed if it doesn't. I'm not being a naysayer, believe me. I'm a very succesful triad and rave about my lifestyle to anyone that will listen. LOL I just like to make it a point that this isn't always the answer to everyone's prayers. Know what I mean??
Use this forum and all of us for insight and advice. I can't count how many times I've said that I WISH that something like this existed when my wife and I first started in the lifestyle.