Originally Posted by Magdlyn
I often date people much younger than me (more than 10 years, I'm 56). "Kids" in their 20s often need to be asked to do things around the house... and usually are happy to do so when asked, I have found.
From a non-relationship side I can confirm this is valid. A lot of time younger adults, especially now-days, really just need someone to lay out expectations.
I'm mid-30's but I'm shocked at how little motivation 20-somethings have without structure and expectations. Most do well when you define what you want.
Maybe try talking to her and helping her understand what you are feeling. Yes, may not be as easy as just breaking up.....but as was said already good sex is hard to find.