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Old 11-19-2011, 01:59 PM
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Yeah, this doesnt sound good. He gets to have 2 lovers, while you don't, and he's even jealous of your exes? Double standard indeed.

You do NOT have to accede to his wishes on this. Your needs and feelings are just as important as his.

Meeting his other gf might be pointless if your guy is being so controlling. You might be better of without him.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

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