I often date people much younger than me (more than 10 years, I'm 56). "Kids" in their 20s often need to be asked to do things around the house... and usually are happy to do so when asked, I have found.
If she's cool and fun in other ways, why not just ask her to help out with things? I mean, good sex can be hard to find.
OTOH, if you 2 just don't have enough in common with her friend-wise, then it might not be worth the hassle.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37