Originally Posted by CaptZebra
A lot of what I'm feeling, I think, is just fear of the unknown... fear of our relationship and our lives changing.
That's what I was going to say after reading your first post.
Please forgive me if I'm projecting myself onto you. Sometimes that's how I understand others: fitting it into how I would feel so I can relate.
I also wonder if maybe you think
be ok with her being with someone else. In theory it makes sense. You can't think of any reason why you shouldn't
be ok with it. But, there are emotions inside you.
I wonder if you need to be honest with the raw, unrefined emotions this brings up for you and give them some recognition, (if indeed they're there?) and give them permission to contradict what you think
you're ok with. Does this make sense?