People are more likely to comment when you have a question, a topic to discuss, or a story to tell, in one of the other sections of the boards. So don't feel too bad.
Anyways, welcome. Are you familiar with the term "unicorn hunting"? It describes what it sounds like you're looking for.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.