Originally Posted by opalescent
And it makes gay sex (TWO penises attached to TWO live actual men) even more disturbing.
*gasp* You're right! It's... it's... double-sex!!! How unseemly.
Thinking about my personal, internal definition of sex... when I think of sex, I think of sensual, nude exploration of one another's bodies. If undergarments were still on, as the OP describes, I imagine I too might not be sure if I thought of it as "sex" or "fooling around".
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.