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Originally Posted by SNeacail
re-assure her that you DID hear what she said and repeat back to her what she said
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Originally Posted by mekodesu
guess now i jsut gotta prove i was listening so its not a question
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What I have learned (fairly recently), is that what we hear is not always what someone meant. This happens all the time with my husband and I. He will claim to have "heard" what I was saying, but when I ask him to repeat it back, it's clear my message got seriously convoluted and twisted (and vice versa). Hense the need to repeat stuff back.