Ha, just realized that I didn't actually include the link I was referencing in the post above. Silly me! Here it is: http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/domadvic.html
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.