Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat
If you read this before the lunch, I would just tell him you're not forcing him to choose anything. You're making your own choice about your safety.
He's saying that to be manipulative and make you feel that you're to blame. You are not to blame. He is, 100%.
Absolutely! He doesn't feel in control and is pouty because he is suppose to be the dom in your relationship. I think he lost that right when he put you in jeopardy. Good doms make decisions for subs with their consent and best interest in mind. He did neither.