Originally Posted by BaconWrappedCupcakes
He said he knew she was clean and I was not at risk for anything.
Just to re-iterate what others have said. He's trying to cover his lies with rationalizations. This is, to me, an unforgivable lack of integrity.
I'm sorry to hear about your pain. But if you live with integrity in your relationships, I can't imagine that it could be productive in anyway to stick around someone who does not live with the same level of integrity.
I would move on.