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Old 11-16-2011, 06:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Anneintherain View Post
All these things together do sound a lot like sabotage to me, not that she is necessarily doing it consciously, but that doesn't really make it feel better, does it.
Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
Your requests seem totally reasonable and appropriate. Her actions and attitudes seem tone deaf and uncaring to the point that it seems like she must be *trying* to sabotage things.
Others have expressed my first thought. And I would add, that in this context, the change of heart about open relationship might signal the same thing. It might be that she genuinely changed her mind about it, or it might be that she no longer feels jealous because she just doesn't care (as it would sound like by the rest of it).
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