The two men that i wasnt to have a polyamourous relationship were consumed in ego. One was simply unable to bring himself to meet the other. I find this very sad. I understand being formally a monogamous person but Being monogamous i also remember having serious conflicts about WHY this person and I cant be happy unless i feel he is ALL mine. Why does that have to be in place to enjoy the company of another? We all need reconditioning. Latter..