Ohh, ok, somehow I missed that you'd slept with your female friend post-marriage, I thought it was just an ongoing friendship where you'd slept together in the past and had some tension now. Got it. Ok, I stand by most everything I said but I'm less confused by your reaction now. Two wrongs = wellllll, definitely not a right, but less of a reason for anyone to be bitter, I suppose.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.