I think you've done all that you can do .... one Red Flag is not allowing you to give an orgasm . The lady's here might be able to shed light on that.
Quickies (flag), being done from behind ...so see does have to look at you (possible flag)... condoms /dental dam (flag) ....6-7 flags and they all point to she just not that into you sexually ...time to move on I think don't waste anymore of your time. Do you have other sexual partners if so concentrate your efforts there instead....more fun less BS.
Good luck D
If you were the best lay she ever had why would she only want that once a month ....just to treat herself to really adequate sex 3 times a week. Stop listening to her words and go with the actions.
Last edited by dingedheart; 11-15-2011 at 06:40 PM.