Working through the kinks (no, not THOSE kinks)
Early 40s married man in a happy (but currently stressful) marriage to a early 30s woman who has made me the luckiest guy on earth.
We've had many discussions about non-monogomousy and how it is possible to love many people.
I've done lots of reading, and am coming to a comfort zone of sorts and looking to take my partner's needs and my needs to the next level. (actually, we both already have, just without telling the other--hence the "currently stressful" comment above). We are working through what we've done so far, and where we'd like to see our awesome abilities to love to the next, natural for us, level.
We have no friends or support system that have experience in poly (that we know of-we might be surprised!), so this seems like a really good place to see where others have gone on their various journeys and experiences. I want to be an even better partner to my wife and want to be able to share this learning experience with her! Wish me, and us, luck!