Posting this as sort of a follow-up to things I've posted previously about D/s. I think that usually when people are confused by D/s they more often seek to understand why the sub would possibly want that and maybe less frequently wonder what's going through the dom's head. I thought this guide for the novice dom was a neat window into the head of the budding dominant. It's hard and sensitive work, being in charge!
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.