Let me also try to reword tHe question a bit more clearly as I forgot to do that.
How frequently do you feel different kinds of chemistry/spark/attraction to people when you first meet them? This spark could be anything from a friendship to fuck buddies to ranting about social science buddies or anything else.
Ie Jenny feels frequent sexual and intellectual attraction upon first meeting people but taken much longer to connect emotionally.
Bob makes connections easily with other artists on a creative level and occasionally feels sexually drawn to some one.
Annie is very friendly but rarely meets people that she feels sexually drawn to.
Francis is asexual and has deep emotional connects but is never sexually drawn to anyone.
Last edited by ray; 11-15-2011 at 01:32 AM.