Thank you! I do feel very welcome here. I've just connected finally with a second guy I've loved from afar for several years. I don't mean to diminish him by calling him "second," I just mean he came after my boyfriend. There is also a third interested, someone who has been a good friend for 6 years. Don't think I'll pursue that one, even though I love him, too, because he's married and they are not Poly. However, I explained Polyamory to him and he is going to talk to his wife about it. They've both had trouble with "cheating." Maybe they need to open things up. My boyfriend doesn't seem to be looking for anyone. Maybe it will just happen. I want him to be happy, too.