Safe Sex question
I recently found out that my BF has not been using condoms with his other GF, and they haven't for sometime long before he met me.
I had asked him on a few occasions if he used them all the time and he said yes.
Obviously he lied to me.
We are now at an impass. I am struggling with the idea of ever being intimate with him again. I asked him to use condoms with her and he refuses saying he won't bring it up because she would be hurt.
He has taken the stance of I amd the Dom and you are the sub and you will fall in line she is just a vanilla girl and I can't control her.
I'm so hurt and depressed. I feel humiliated and used.
Any advice you have would be greatly appreciated.