Hi thank you for replying
My soundproofing involved closing and covering the heat duct in my room with a towel - haha. It's under my bed anyway and it gets warm enough in the house, too.
Our whole house is hardwood with few carpets. His room is right next to the furnace, so the sound comes out of ALL the heat ducts.
My therapist is helping me with my self-confidence and esteem. I think the problem may lay in there somewhere.