A hard cap is an absolute. Say we get done with game at 9, we don't mind if people want to stick around until 11-11:30, but our hard carp - the absolute latest we want company sticking around to is midnight. Because our gaming friends don't (and can't) know about our relationship beyond cuddle buddies, it was important to establish a hard cap of you guys absolutely HAVE to go home by midnight so we can get Wendigo home (we pick him up and take him home most of the time) and we can get to bed at a decent time. Basically, we have a hard cap of time our friends can stay so that we can fool around or have sex after everyone leaves and still get Wendigo home by 3:30 am.
Last edited by BrigidsDaughter; 11-14-2011 at 05:24 PM.