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Old 11-14-2011, 03:08 PM
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"Why can't you let me worry about that?"

Apparently he does not view you as HIS primary.

You see, if he did, (in my opinion) then you would be a part of or have some influence on the decisions he makes about relationships, or anything that you both do.


by the way, to put it in perspective, since it feels like you are doing something that I often do. To me, sometimes relationships are very very personal, sometimes can mean more to me than to others. As a way to understand this I try to clarify things with myself, (I often like to call my primary partner my 'full-time' boyfriend and my secondary as 'part-time'... even though I do hate to label it, I usually do not use the label, but time spent together is the most notable difference, you see)
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