Originally Posted by whyimhere
...i do love both very much, but it is my other (poly) i do seem to be at one with, there seems to be a certain energy level between us...
That at-oneness with a woman you barely know is called new relationship energy (NRE). Do a tag search here to read much much more about it.
You are awash in infatuation and sexy hormones. This new woman is not practicing poly with you, she is helping you to cheat on your wife.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years