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Old 11-12-2011, 11:58 PM
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if it doesn't involve everyone having sex with everyone and anyone then it truly isn't a good thing.
I'm quite sure nobody was suggesting that. I think the only problem is this:

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made it perfectly clear and precise what it was we were looking for and thinking of
Like you said, you have a precise picture in your heads what this new relationhip will look like. And that is the thing that usually leads to problems. People here have been suggesting that maybe you should open up a bit more - not because they would want you to have sex with "everyone and anyone" - but because your image of the new person is quite strict. He/she may not be able to fulfill that role like you would like them to. If you would let go some of the requirements then maybe it would be somewhat easier for the new person to fit in.
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